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If they text and you don’t respond, they then know why – because you said to call or you said that you’re not a texting person. In olden times, which is barely a decade ago, people picked up the phone to make a first date and beyond. Always remember: crumb communications equals crumbs of attentions equals you being left ‘hungry’ in the relationship. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.Go and get ‘fed’ by someone that wants to engage with you. Whether it’s figuring out what’s going on in a troubling relationship, understanding you and self-care, or being more assertive, I’m here to help you guide you.It is the mainstay of the unavailables of this world – beware! You want a relationship, not a permanent date or repetitive strain injury from tippy tapping all the time.Distant communication from people that like to be emotionally distant. Be up front – “I’m not a texting person so it’s best to catch me on this number during the day and this number in the evening” or when they send that first text, reply and add “OK and give me a call later and we can catch up then”. You want to be able to pick up the phone, to get a call, to not be waiting around and to feel like your contact is building and of course, hear their voice.I applaud your restraint at not having taken a sledgehammer to the wretched thing before now. The fact that your partner does not see this is just another indication of how new technology has distorted the normal rules of etiquette.Mobiles are answered over lunch, mid-conversation, at the cinema and at shop counters.

After face-to-face communication, it’s still a great and next best form of connected contact with another person.My partner of a year has the habit or answering his mobile when we’re in bed making love.He claims he has to answer the phone, as he runs a large company and it could be one of his clients.He stopped only when she snatched the phone from his hand and flung it out of the window. If he’s kind and perceptive in other areas, I think this relationship can be salvaged, but you need to be firm.To explain when phone use is unacceptable, you probably need to outline circumstances under which it is acceptable.

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